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In the film About Schmidt, star Jack Nicholson creeps into the bar alone while star Jack Nicholson is praised at his retirement party. We see a man going to life from a purposeless, meaningful job that brings problems to himself and others. He was lost.
Life often reflects fiction. According to MIT’s Age Lab, retirement evokes conflicting feelings, such as excitement about freedom from work and anxiety about having enough money or purpose.
Of course, money is important and many people have experienced what I call “income withdrawal syndrome.” But what we need is also to discuss the psychological consequences of retirement.
Are people preparing about how they feel first, second, 100?th Retirement day? Do people have a retirement coach, counselor, or therapist who handles the many conflicting and ambiguous emotions they have?
From hundreds of interviews with retirees, I learned how to make the transition easier. Here are some important points.
Expect surprises
In my personal note, I thought retirement would be a cake. After all, I was studying and writing about transitions. I met up with my financial advisor and got a great retirement party.
But when I realized I was out of focus, when I didn’t know what to do with my business card or why I even needed it, I knew I should learn more.
One I spoke to experienced two retirements, one when he left the theatres on TV and off-Broadway. There, I worked in many behind the scenes areas. The other was the people who left state schools for the deaf and were responsible for multiple disabilities whose role as a teacher, principal and assistant supervisor was highly rewarding.
Both retirements changed his life – his job role, his everyday life, his relationship – Leaving the theatre, his true love, made him feel that “part of me has been erased.”
The two transitions caused different reactions. One was easy. The other is forced to face him with the loss of his identity and purpose.
Your reaction will always be fluid
How you feel about the day you retire is just one part of the story. That was revealed when he studied men whose work was eliminated at the Goddard Plant at NASA Space Flight Center. Together with my former colleague Zandy Leibowitz, we interviewed everyone who had their work removed on the day of “power reduction” and followed them six months later.
One artist first expressed what many people felt. “This is the worst thing that’s ever happened to me.”
However, I was surprised when I conducted a follow-up round of interviews that many of the men’s attitudes were brighter. What are the main reasons? NASA connected each man with someone from the HR department. The connection was intended to last until the former employee found another job. Our study highlighted the importance of institutional support. This is a great addition to your support from family and friends, where you can look back at your work and changes in life while processing your emotions.
It is important to remember that your response to a transition changes over time. How you feel first isn’t how you feel six months, a year, or ten years from now.
Beware of your psychological portfolio
You will receive a monthly statement showing how our financial portfolio worked. Similarly, many of us go to the doctor for our bodies every year. As you get older, you will have regular blood tests in addition to the annual body to check for cholesterol.
So, doesn’t it make sense to regularly inspect what I call your psychological portfolio? Few people realize we even have it. But we all have a set of resources to help us negotiate a big transition. Resignation is certainly important.
These potential resources include identifying your identity, leaning on your relationship and focusing on your purpose. In other words, when you think about retirement, it is important to consider your new identity, where you know who you were – how you can maximize your personal connections with friends and family, and your new purpose.
Become an investigative reporter
Researching which doctors you use, which plays you attend, and what trips you will take to hire will help you take control after retirement.
Read books on topics. We interview retired friends with retired coaches and gurus. Become an investigator on your behalf. Ask yourself: What regrets do you have? What career dreams have you given up? What kind of retirement fantasies did you have? Next, choose a part of your dream.
For example, being a pilot is unrealistic at a 65-year-old, but contacting the Federal Aviation Administration about the potential volunteering in supporting and supporting pilots can help you get a part of your dreams.
It’s never too late to start dreaming. Her daughter, Karen, a retired art teacher, fantasized about life on the farm, but she had no clue as to how she would start. She began researching with real estate agents. Eventually they sold condos and moved to a small farm to buy a goat.
A goat has reached 25, and she is now attending New York State Sheep and Wool Festivals, selling beautiful threads.
Remember, today is not eternal. The path you take can last forever, or you can change it.
Nancy K. Schlossberg is Professor Emelita at the University of Maryland and is the author of “Revitalizing Retirement.”
